He broke off our engagement, now he’s back; should I take him?

This is my dilemma.

 

I met him in 2012, we were in love. He engaged me in 2014 and disengaged me in 2015 for this reason – he wasn’t financially ready

He [also didn’t] think our union would favour our individual careers and his father says I may control him in the marriage because of my tribal background (I’m Rivers).

 

To say I was devastated would be an understatement because I had locked down my life on this one guy.

 

I begged and waited for him to come back and after one year I gave up and embraced life with an open mind.

 

Few months ago he started wanting me back on the basis of … “I can’t do without you.” But the truth remains I am still Rivers and nothing has changed about me so why is he back?

 

I gradually accepted him back but the spark was no more there.

 

I met someone else recently, and I am ready to move on with this new guy, even though I’m still getting to know him. I really like him and I just don’t want to keep holding on to someone who has kept me single for 5 years.

 

Please what do you advise?